discounthandjob:

You know what. I was going to answer this.
I was.
But then I realized
It’s so utterly bullshit that every single sexworker gets this question.
That we all have to have our family and personal life affairs asked by some anon.
Someone who knows damn well that due to stigma a lot of people have issues with their family right now and its potentially triggering.
You obviously knew this. After all, you did ask this behind a greyface.
You intentionally asked someone a potentially triggering, hurtful question about their personal life with the intention of it being posted publicly.
I see this question sent to a worker I follow nearly every single day.
It’s so completely frustrating. Why do people think they’re entitled to pry at peoples personal lives?
So you know what?
I’m not going to answer this.
For all you know I could have a great relationship with my parents. I could see them every so often and tell them I’m safe and doing well while they support my choices. Or they could have disowned me. Or who knows, maybe they’re even dead? Maybe my mothers a sexworker or ex-stripper?
It doesn’t matter because it’s really none of your business.
And I’m sorry to blow up on you in this or if it wasn’t your intention to pry, but I see this far too often and it makes me livid.